Adult Child of BPD or NPD Parent(s)

Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach, A.J. Mahari, will have a podcast and videos coming to this channel specifically for people who grew up with and may still have a living Mother or Father or sibling (and other family members) with Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder. As someone who grew up with two Cluster B parents who were also alcoholic I know how incredibly painful it is and it can last long into your adulthood. Adult children of a Borderline or Narcissistic parent need to heal because these Cluster B parents will control you, even in unconscious ways, in some people cases for a life time and even from the grave. I help clients get their family system out of each of them and learn to become an individualized independent person no longer adhering to the role "assigned" you in childhood. Scapegoat children of a BPD or NPD parent are tremendously wounded and often re-living trauma in BPD NPD romantic relationships.